I have struggled with migraines for as long as I can remember. I'm not sure how young I was when they first started, but they have definitely been a part of my life since puberty. That was over 30 years ago, so eliminating them has been a big focus of my life.
I distinctly remember my dad saying to me once, about 20 years ago, "You must be an expert on headaches by now." And it hit me that I should be an expert, but I wasn't. I was only an expert sufferer, I didn't really understand why I was suffering or how to fix it. That was a turning point for me in researching and learning all I could to try to solve the problem, not just endure it.
At first simply taking ibuprofen would help me cope with headaches and often even eliminate them. But my body soon grew accustomed to this drug and it stopped working for me. When I finally saw a doctor and was diagnosed with migraines in my 20's, she gave me hope saying that "often when women get pregnant, their migraines stop." This thrilled me because I was ready and hoping to have children, but I was also worried how I would be able to handle pregnancy without being able to take any medications for migraines.
In the meantime, I was prescribed Imitrex (one of several triptans available for migraine treatment). It worked wonders at first and I was so relieved to have something I could count on to stop a migraine in its tracks. But when I did get pregnant, I couldn't take anything for the pain and it was more severe than I had ever experienced, thanks to the extra hormone changes my body was going through.
Once I was no longer pregnant or nursing, I returned to using triptans, but the longer I used Imitrex, the more my body grew accustomed to this drug as well. Soon I was having more than 2 headaches a week (and taking triptans more often than this leads to rebound headaches.) I was having to take larger doses as time went on as well. By year 6 or 7 of using Imitrex I was on 4 times the amount that worked when I first started using it and I was in pain about 15 days out of the month, while only being able to use Imitrex for 4-6 of those days. Things were definitely deteriorating rapidly and I was not at all happy with my quality of life.
I had also tried a preventative drug. (I've forgotten the name of it now.) But after only a month on this drug I was scared at how much it changed my personality. I realized I had quickly become depressed and didn't even feel like the same person anymore. I went back to the doctor and gave him this feedback, to which he was not at all surprised and said that is a common side effect. I was shocked that he had failed to mention this possibility to me before having me take the medicine.
I distinctly remember my husband opening up the medication paperwork explaining the side effects of Imitrex and telling me that a noted side effect was muscle tension. The very thing causing migraines for me in the first place. I made a decision that day that I was done using Imitrex and stopped cold turkey. It was a hard adjustment, but I was already having so much pain on days where I couldn't take anything more that it didn't make too much of a difference. Slowly, as my body overcame the addiction to this medication, the migraine days decreased.
Then I started focusing on what I could learn about preventing them naturally. I went to a chiropractor who adjusted my top vertebrae, the atlas vertebrae, and that helped tremendously. I was still getting hormonal migraines and dealing with a few other triggers, but it gave me hope.
I started noticing a pattern that my emotions could set off a migraine, such as if I got angry at my husband. Frustration was a big trigger for me. Learning to calm myself down and not get carried away by strong emotions was key to preventing migraines. I couldn't stuff the frustration down inside myself, I had to acknowledge it, but be proactive in recognizing what was in my control and what wasn't, then letting go of the things I couldn't control.
A friend of mine managed her migraines with diet and mentioned how she had to be very careful to never eat sugar without first having some protein. This was another big stepping stone for me on my path to becoming migraine free. Once I became more conscious of my glycemic index and managed my blood sugar levels better, I no longer had migraines except for right before or during menstruation. Recognizing food intolerances helped even more.
Even though it is challenging to have a migraine and not be able to take anything to relieve the pain, my quality of life is SO MUCH better now than when I was using pain medications. Being out of commission 1-2 days a month instead of 15 or more is much more manageable.
In addition to the reduction in pain, I wasn't flooding my body with toxins. Ibuprofen is very damaging to your colon and imitrex was giving me all kinds of muscle pain in my shoulders and neck. The side effects just didn't outweigh the benefits for me.